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I found out about Jake through his podcast and was intrigued. The experience working with him has been great to date. I’ve worked with many therapists and coaches over the years. Jake stands out partly because he cares so deeply and is so eager to help. He sees my problems and is almost as excited as I am to solve them. I hear him furiously typing notes on his keyboard when we’re talking, and I hear “I am deeply invested in your success” in every keystroke. I love his enthusiasm to continually find new ways to help his clients. Big fan of Jake!

Before joining No More Desire, I tried to stop my porn addiction on my own, but I struggled to make real progress. I would stop for a few days but then get hooked again and relapse very quickly. Jake’s program was different. The design of the program makes it highly probable you will break the neurological addiction by doing the daily exercises. The gap between my relapses started widening, from days to weeks. Not only that, the grip of the addiction on me has gotten softer. I no longer feel weak. Jake was so helpful, especially during the hard times where I had to have hard conversations with my wife. I believed that my sexual impulses and their frequency were natural, and that surrendering to them was natural and was the only way to release them. Now, I know that good habits, good self understanding, and good thinking make me grounded and focused, and give me healthy, sexual power.

“I found Jake’s podcast because I was struggling with staying sober on my own. I decided to commit to getting help directly from Jake and it’s been fabulous. He is insightful and knowledgeable - he dealt with what we are all dealing with so he truly understands our struggle. My conversations with Jake are deep and help me understand why I’m an addict, why I struggle with staying sober and how I’m going to heal once and for all. The daily assessments in Jakes program are critical. They really make you think….”why am I like this’…..as you dig down and really think about your issues you can begin to solve your issues. I’ve been working with Jake for a few months now and I will continue. His program works - plain and simple. I strongly recommend Jake and his system, it’s the real deal”.

“Addicted to pornography and masturbation for close to 38 years, I have tried to stop multiple times. I looked at my support team - I had my wife, SA brothers, and a Sponsor, but something was missing. Then I heard one of Jake’s podcasts, and he spoke my language. Jake has helped me learn how to communicate with my wife, recognize and work on character defects, and forgive, accept, and love the different pieces of me. He also has a special talent for slipping little comments, suggestions, or advice towards the end of each one-on-one meeting; I’m calling them ‘Nuggets From Jake,’ and I look forward to them.”- Jeremy

When I first started meeting with Jake, I was in a dark place, feeling alone, betrayed, and unworthy. I didn’t think I deserved my family’s support. But as I continued our sessions, I began to see myself and my mistakes differently. With Jake’s guidance and tools, I managed to climb out of the hole I had dug for myself. He taught me strategies to develop new habits and thought patterns, helping me shift my perspective. Instead of dwelling on my flaws and mistakes, he showed me how to view them more positively. Having someone to talk to gave me the courage to share my addiction with my family and gain their support. Much of the happiness and fulfillment I experience now is thanks to Jake.

Jake has given my recovery new life! I've been in and out of recovery for 16 years, struggling to stay sober from pornography and feeling stuck. Jake has created a program that gives me structure and accountability. The material he uses and how he has organized it, along with the daily exercises, has given me a fresh perspective, which I’m finding valuable in helping me develop a recovery mindset. I no longer feel stuck, and I'm filled with hope and motivation for the first time in years.

I tried many things to address my addiction such as screenshot accountability, internet filters and talk therapy. Whilst these methods were somewhat helpful, I still struggled regularly. After a few months of listening to the No More Desire podcast, I decided to set up a consultation with Jake. This turned out to be the most significant step I've ever taken in my struggle against porn addiction. Being in the programme has already yielded so many benefits. I've learned how to identify the underlying stresses and anxieties fuelling my addiction cravings. I'm also learning how to adopt a recovery mindset centred around acceptance and surrender, as opposed to resistance and judgement. Jake is a very compassionate and encouraging coach, who has a real desire to see growth in his clients. I would highly recommend the programme.

After going through several therapists in the past two decades, this is by far the best experience I have had. The program is well structured and was designed to produce individual transformation. I can say with certainty that this curriculum differs from anything I've ever experienced. Jake is ready to listen and interested in what I have to say, there is no judgment, but a place of genuine empathy. He's also ready to teach from personal experience, heart-to-heart.

My life & marriage was beginning to feel bleak & unmanageable when I began, but already I am finding hope & confidence as I give 100% effort to work the program. The biggest benefits that differ from other therapeutic approaches I have tried include working with someone who has overcome addiction themselves, daily accountability through check ins, vision focused writing assignments, & faith based recovery. I have grown to trust Jake & know he genuinely cares about his clients. I am confident I will beat my addiction & enjoy lasting sobriety. I recommend this program to those truly seeking to change!

Before I was with Jake, I felt like I tried everything to overcome but it seemed like no matter what I did, I could never get over it. Jake's program has taught me exactly what I need to overcome for good and have no desire (hence the name). I’m still working everyday and creating the lifestyle that Jake has taught me to be able to be sober long-term. But for now, I just feel so much happier and so much more free. I feel like I can manage my thoughts and feelings and truly control them. My relationships are better since being with Jake and his program. He is one of the nicest dudes you will ever meet. He never judges but always gives amazing advice at the right moments. I totally recommend him!!! You won’t regret it!

Before I started this program my life and marriage were in shambles. I had no clue how to control my addictions. I had beaten alcoholism, quit smoking but could never on my own kick porn and sexting. I fell upon this program searching through podcasts on porn addiction and thought "Wow, this Jake guy actually seems pretty awesome" unlike a lot of the other guys I listened to. Jake's program has transformed my life. It has dug deeper into the "why" to my addictions and taught me countless ways to battle against my addictions. Before starting this program, I dealt with high anxiety and depression to go along with my addictions. Using Jake's methods I have got myself to a much better spot in life. I deal with little to no depression, my anxiety is no more than your average Joe, and my marriage is pretty close to better than ever. Thanks to the things I have learned with this program I am the happiest with myself that I have ever been in my life. Jake's guidance has been above and beyond what I was expecting I'd get out of this. Having someone that has dealt with the same things as myself and can communicate with me more like a peer than someone who thinks they're better than you is a really big thing for me. I have always had a hard time sharing things, but Jake makes it very no pressure, just come as you are. Simply put, Jake and this program have changed my life and I can honestly say I wouldn't be where I am today without this.

I have learned so much from my meetings with Jake and I am so grateful that I have been able to talk with someone so I can know how to become a better man and fill my thoughts with good, positive things. I have been able to strengthen my relationship with God and learn how to channel my negative emotions with sexual desires into good, positive emotions to help me become who God has always meant for me to be.