Is a-foreign-affair.com Legit?

It's an utter scam. 10.00 per letter and guess what, the ladies will not leave the site to communicate. The site operator also provides weekend trips to meet women (international travel, big bucks etc so the sucker feels like there's value?!) and that'may be legit, presuming the ladies there are willing to divulge personal contact info...I have my doubts, given how sleazy the online portion of the service operates. So the advice? Run. Run far far away.

Do your research. When it comes down to it, there's only a few tour companies out there. I can definitely recommend A Foreign Affair. I though they did a great job. I really liked the tour. I though it was a lot of fun and my mentality going in was I'm going on vacation with the opportunity to meet women and it could turn into something special, but I'm still on vacation. You want to have a fun experience and maybe light a spark, have something that you can kindle to make it grow.

A foreign affair aka (love me.com) & (Manila-women.com) run a scam scheme where they pay the very good looking women for photos and personal information so that their staff or interpreters write and reply on behalf of them. The purpose is to get you ‘hooked’ in. They even get the girl to create a video so that it all seems viable and true. Well it’s not. You think your writing to the girl but your not. You’re communicating to anyone but the girl. They entice you in by writing every day and more than once a day, they write lies - anything to get you to reply or purchase the attached photos. Don’t fall for it. It’s very expensive. Not sure if all the girls are doing this but definitely the attractive ones. If they reply quickly back to you and try and entice to write 3 times a day, it’s a scam! Don’t spend another penny. It’s not the girl you’re writing to.

What went wrong is the matchmakers never sent my photos or anything related to what I wrote to the match...yet I was charged for sending my photos...photos and what you type is important because the women cannot see your profile. John Adams admitted in this case the matchmakers just write letters to both parties, like an old 900 pay-per-minute party line lol. So I contacted customer service to at least send my photos to the woman with my original short message. I was then contacted by a person claiming to be John Adams (owner??) and a person named Liz who admitted the matchmaker never sent my letter or pictures and promised a full refund (~$60).Then a few days later I was contacted by a person named Noelia B. who stated I would not be getting a full refund, but rather a letter-sending credit of $9.99.....so I can read the letter for free when the woman will write me again.....but cust service said she is not interested and will not be writing again.....So, while I certainly appreciate the customer service response, at the end of the day I paid for pictures to be sent to the woman and they were never sent, and not surprisingly the woman said she was not interested. So, I'm out $60 bucks. I'll just date local Colombianas.

After spending thousand of dollars and wasting months , I found this review site and found I'm not alone. Stay away. I didn't do a tour with them. That may be the only thing that is real. I looked into a Columbian tour, contacted the only 2 women that looked attractive and they both said I was too old. Both admitted they couldn't see my profile.

I had the most enjoyable experience in Cebu. I would recommend their service to anybody. I've never seen anything like it. I’ve heard of dating clubs back in the states. But there’s no way you can compare them to what I experienced. This was something totally different. The entire staff were very well-organized and customer service orientated. I can wholeheartedly endorse this agency to all the single guys who are seriously interested in courting a nice filipina woman.

I have dealt with a lot of dishonest businesses and people over the last 30 years owning numerous businesses.Irma # 192200 is a SCAMMER she either works for A Foreign Affairs directly or is on commission. Look on BBB reviews and that tell the story 1.85 STARS!!! WOW!I'm sure not all of the women are scammers!

I really felt like I was going to find my wife in the Philippines. I sensed a true calling to do that. But at the same time, I was single and I wanted to enjoy the experience. To travel around and visit different places. Then after meeting Gellie through their service and twice spending time with her in person, I felt like I had to end my search. We had gotten closer and closer and I found myself losing interest in going to anymore socials. I mean, the socials were fantastic, but I'm absolutely certain that I have found the one to spend the rest of my life with.

My experience with AFA was life-changing. I recommend every single guy to try it at least once. The most important thing is not to give up. For me, it took about a year to get everything together with the K-1 fiancee Visa. I prepared the paperwork myself. My lady finally arrived from Europe this year. We are now married and continue to live a happy life in the U.S.

The owner of this dating site, John Adams, is a snake. He makes it clear that he thinks client's should not overdue it when it comes to letter writing ( that takes the responsibility off of him and put's it on the client). However, at the same time he makes a good profit off the exchanging of letters. It costs $ 9.99. to open a womans letter and any photos sent by the lady are an extra fee. I was surprised to find out that he's offering tours to war ravaged Ukraine. So, you have two choices. Pay for endless letter exchanges or take a chance of getting yourself killed on the Ukraine tour. Either way, the owner of AFA puts money in his pocket. "There's a sucker born every minute." 🤑

My experience with this company has been nothing less than amazing. I truly think of their team every day and can't thank all of them enough for what they have done for me. I had no idea what I was getting into when I traveled abroad but I couldn't have come to a better conclusion. Irina an I are very happy together. We haven't rung each other's neck yet so it's working. Thank you to all my friends in this episode of my ever changing life.

Thanks to AFA, I met someone special and am now engaged. I am going to be moving to the Philippines and get married in her home town. All of the staff made this possible. Everyone was very helpful and a special thanks to all of the matchmakers. Without their help it wouldn't have been such a success.

Thank you for your membership service. It was very professional, well-organized and complete with great support whenever I had a question or needed help on an issue. My questions were quickly answered.

I have tried this site, and the women are not genuine. I was suckered in, I will admit, but my best advice is to avoid this waste of money website.

After 2 years and spending more than $20000 on gifts and communication with women, I gave up. The women, even after chatting daily for months on video and through email always say "we need more time to get to know each other", one woman alone took up $10000 dollars of my money and months of my time. I found out after I booked a trip to Mexico to see her that she "still needed more time to get to know me", then called me Brain, that's not my name (after 8 months proving she is mass chatting men to make money) so I started a search on her online. Turns out she was very accomplished, and very high profile online and on more than 20 different dating sites. She had 300000 facebook followers and after I asked about it she blocked me from being a friend, blocked her instagram and everything else, problem is I looked at all of it before I told her and saw everything. Most of these women work for the site, if they look like they are out of your league then they are, one even told me that they have a quota of 5 emails a month to several guys even if they don't reply and they gain some sort of benefit from the site. These are gold diggers, I proved that easily. I am very well off and was looking for a family oriented woman that didn't see the money but liked me for who I am, I acted like i was struggling a bit and not one woman on this site was interested in love, just what I could offer, or an escape from their war torn countries. Any man can buy a woman, finding a woman these days that loves her man for the man he is .....very rare indeed.After a 3 month break from the site i logged in and my accumulated travel credits, almost $1500 disappeared....hmmmmm can you prove this isn't a scam. The guys posting about their weddings are mostly millionaires (i looked them up) and unless you tell the women there that you are one too you will have little success (this is a true mail order bride site). My experiment proved this, so I got on a plane a flew to Asia and met my current wife, out on the streets, and in person, an amazing woman that loves me for me, not what I can provide, I met her, played broke and she still loved me for who I am. Now I am happily married and know its not because I have money, but because my wife truly loves me. Stay away from this online garbage with women that wear enough make up to cover Medusa up and endless plastic surgery and plastic additives, they are fake for the most part, only want your money and clout.What happened to my benefits from spending 20000 dollars on this site, the credits just disappeared. I was going to travel with them but since they disappeared i guess not.

I registrered myself on the netsite loveme.com who is the same people as a-foreign-affair.net 7/2-23. I started as a standard member but upgraded it fast to platina member to get its advantaces as their decription on their netsite. It went good for 1 day. I had full access, and browsed a lot of beatiful georgeous women. The day after i couldnt get access on my member site. When you register you got an verification email right after, and I did click on it, and I've got an email approved!. I found an link to customers care on a-foreign-affair-net site and ask the woman why I can't access. She think a moment and said: this is some tecnical issues and I received a link to claim my problems, and so I did. I also asked her how to call them (they have phonenr. on the netsite, but when i call the number is not in use. She give me that number with some prefix to add the number. (why cant they have that number on the netsite? anywhay I suspect from that moment something is wrong and until today almost 14 days after sending my claim nothing has happened! I have not been given any confirmation about my email to tecnical support, havent heard a thing from them. I off course used my Visa card when suscribed, and there is a monthly fee every 30 days. I sent them a Final notice to open up my member site given them until today to clean up, if not, I going to give them bad reputation on Trustpilot. I have still not heard a thing. So therefore guys I wrote this warning. Keep out of these two netsites, a foreign affair and loveme, they are the same, the same scam people behind it. Keep your money. When women like in there are as beatiful as in there, that is not true. I just falled for them. Now i warn all you guys out there, not think with your dick, use your head!. Scam Scam, Fake, Fake. (this is a true story from a respectable guy in Europe who dreamed about their trips to Slavic country finding a woman).

“Scams of Foreign Affairs”

I have been on this site too long but learned that the phone connections is a scam. The girls get kickbacks on every call, and the site charges you even if the girl is on vacation, they put another person to write the letter, since this is where the majority of their revenues come from. The man is charged $9.95 for each letter he receives and another same fee for a response. So it is utmost importance for the site to write letters even if the girl is absent or on vacation. The man, unknowingly has to pay for these scam letters. Additionally, since I put at least $50 to $100 to my credit card, it is very easy for the site to squeeze in additionally charges of $9.95 without the man's knowledge. Beware of this site, it is a scam, although the trips are for real, but too much expensive. Service Value Shipping Returns Quality

“I found the staff extremely helpful”

I looked at a number of different matchmakers, and then I saw AFA online on YouTube. I had an interest and I signed up with Love Me. And that is how I got to meet my partner. It's been a wonderful experience and I urge all of you, if you have an interest in Ukrainian women to sign up. I'm telling you, they're beautiful, they're warm, they're friendly. Everything that you may have seen online is just as accurate, if not my own experience, as being even more accurate because I've been there. Service Value Quality

“Extremely expensive.”

Emails are $9.99 to both send and receive. If the woman sends pictures you pay per picture to view. $3.50 per pic, $6.95 per vid. A two way exchange can easily cost $40...that's 2 emails. You may not include any personal info like phone number or email address as it gets filtered by the system. If you find someone you want to meet, they will charge $275 to arrange the date. This all makes sense when I read another review that the girls are actually paid for replying to emails. Which explains why nearly every return email comes with 5 pictures. Overall this smells like a scam. Service Value Quality

“I lost a lot of money”

I'm currently using only MyUkrLady Trust me, there is a huge difference from A Foreign Affair! You gonna see it in an instant. When the girls are real they act differently: their girls are still gorgeous, but they are not around all day and night and their responses are relevant and logic. I'm so happy to forget about all the nonsense that happened to me on A Foreign Affair! If you stick around for long enough you will see how A Foreign Affair works. They have absolutely fraudulent, disgusting and blatantly horrible methods of work. But I recommend believing all the negative examples and not repeating our mistakes. I lost a lot of money! The site pays the majority if not all the girls for luring you in and chatting with you. There are just a few decent dating sites these days who don't do it.

“Is anyone home?”

This site, and its affiliate, loveme.com, need serious updating on profiles. Their one category, 'Eastern Europe' hasn't been revised since Aug. Of 2021. How many of these who have "active files" are still living due to the Ukraine war? And why so many pictures in place that, when selected, are supplanted with "withdrawn by request"? C'mon guys, are you running a dating service or a high school yearbook?

“If you're single, definitely go”

The women I met through their service were all beautiful, so sweet and friendly, like nines and tens. They made me feel very masculine. I felt empowered and valuable a lot of times. They were writing me afterwards. I'd say 90% of them were ready to get into a relationship and marriage. Their culture was so receptive. It made me embarrassed of American culture and how we are. It was a great experience. I would recommend it to the single men out there. Service Value Quality

“A tour to remember”

This is something I've always wanted to do but I never knew there was an opportunity to do this, to actually go abroad. I looked up a-foreign-affair.com online and saw all of these single men expressing how much fun they had, how they met the girl of their dreams on this special tour. I decided to just make a change. I didn't want to stay in the United States, go through the same routine that I've been going through of trying to find a lady. Your mentality is totally different when you come to a different country, especially to Colombia. I just wanted to make that change. There was nothing like this in the States. It was way more than anything. This was an actual experience. Service Value Quality

“Thank you AFA”

I decided to sign up here to meet gentlemen from other countries. I filled an application and then I got a letter from a respectful, sincere and kind man who was sure what he wanted. I am now engaged to this man. We have spent wonderful time together. This was just what my heart needed. I am now applying for the U.S. visa to fly to America to get married. Service Value

“Nothing like this in the U.S.”

I was really excited and a little nervous before I went to Colombia because this was my first time trying to do something like this. When I got there, I felt like a rockstar because there were so many beautiful women waiting outside as we walked in. I didn't know what to do. Everywhere I looked so many gorgeous women. I was just so amazed. It was nothing like I've ever experienced before. The women are so pleasing than in the United States. They welcome you and they don't feel so privileged like the women back home. Service Value Quality

“It's worth the time”

I tried to keep my expectations low. But you know, my expectations were massively exceeded when I experienced it. It's been an incredible tour. It is very real. I used to procrastinate because why would I pay thousands of dollars to get rejected here when I can get rejected for free in America? You don't get rejected there. It's worth it. It's worth the money. It's worth the time. It's worth the effort because there's genuine connections. If you come here and you want a family, you want children, you're stable financially, you're gold. They'll go after you. They'll pursue you, but you at the same time have to earn it. Service Value Quality

“Totally deceiving girls Don't look like their photos”

I was a customer of AFA and I booked a tour a personal tour with a friend of mine to go to Kyiv in 2020. I've been keeping this to myself for a long time but the truth needs to come out. The truth is the girls that you see in the photos are not the girls who show up. They are truly deceiving everyone.! Do not waste your money, traveling to Ukraine, or any other of their tours they use Photoshop And filters to make the women look beautiful in reality is not the women's fault in my case all the women that I met had no idea that they were manipulating the photos. Service Value Quality

“Very nicely done”

They definitely have the best website of all the online agencies. There is lots of information, especially for us wife-seekers. It's very detailed and in-depth, with well-working search engines. A much improved change made recently as to how the women's photos show up now. The media coverage is excellent as well. Most importantly, having the acknowledged engagements and marriages listed was a huge selling and convincing factor for me. The videos and photos are also a BIG plus for any guy checking out their offered services. My congratulations to their programmers and staff! Service Value Quality

“Never experienced anything like this”

I had the most enjoyable experience in Cebu. I would recommend their service to anybody. I've never seen anything like it. I've heard of dating clubs back in the states. But there's no way you can compare them to what I experienced. This was something totally different. The entire staff were very well-organized and customer service orientated. I can wholeheartedly endorse this agency to all the single guys who are seriously interested in courting a nice filipina woman. Service Value Quality

“I appreciated the services offered”

Let me say their service is recommendable. I appreciated the discounts given to platinum members for their express mail service. And after only sending one letter I got a quick reply from a highly educated, sweet filipina lady. Thanks to the staff who were helpful in giving me tips and bits of advice to find my lady. I have had a delightful experience so far without exceptions. Congrats to your service... if there is one on the internet I can recommend without any doubts then it is certainly a foreign affair. Tip for consumers:it is a little pricey, but if you can, I would recommend the platinum membership with full services and discounts

“Scam”

In my opinion, this is a predatory dating site that takes advantage of vulnerable, lonely, gullible, and ill informed men seeking female companionship and long term loving relationships. The messages sent and received in the site are scripted by FA employees and designed to entice multiple contacts and generate payments associated with each interaction. The photos represented on the site are of women mostly 30-40 years old who are very attractive and certainly not a cross section of real world women. Looking closely you can identify photo shoot locations and props, as well as a lot of photo retouching. I exchanged communications with one of FA's owner's after a fraudulent interaction (my only message) and was amazed at how transparent and shallow his explanations were. I advise researching the BBB complaints about this company. Beware!

“I came to the best conclusion”

My experience with this company has been nothing less than amazing. I truly think of their team every day and can't thank all of them enough for what they have done for me. I had no idea what I was getting into when I traveled abroad but I couldn't have come to a better conclusion. Irina an I are very happy together. We haven't rung each other's neck yet so it's working. Thank you to all my friends in this episode of my ever changing life.

“Mexico City was incredible”

I just returned from an AFA tour in Mexico City and let me tell you, these socials were something else. It's the exact opposite of the American bars where have 10 guys to a few girls. Here, it's about 3 or 4 women to 1 guy. The women were definitely not on the shy side. Beautiful ladies approached me and introduced themselves. They wanted to know about me and where I was from, what I did. This social was very well organized, drinks were flowing, catered food and entertainment were all top-notch. It was an incredible time. Thank you a foreign affair!

“AFA delivers the goods”

Thank you for such a wonderful site. You really do deliver what you say! I have been a member for 2 months and I have more addresses and girls writing to me than I know what to do with. I'm a fairly good looking young guy, but I'm not used to having to turn down beautiful women, however since I've met a couple of girls worth visiting, I've decided that I no longer need further addresses. Your site is great and the responses have been swift. Keep up the great work! Tip for consumers:If you have the resources and a bit of time to search, you just might find your diamond in the rough.

“Exceptional tour”

My trip to Costa Rica went exceptionally well and I was pleased with their staff in San Jose. Gustavo was personable and understanding. His help was very important for me with the girl I had met. He had a solid relationship with his staff, the girls that were signed up and the interpreters. The interpreter I used many times was excellent. Her name was Jessica. Service Value Quality

“No assistance and fake profiles”

I requested the assistance from Loveme.com regarding one profile. I was in contact with one of their profile Dan Yan ID *******. On her profile she claims to be a plastic surgeon in Shanghai from China. She contacted me at first the 15 Dec 2023. The 29 Dec she told me " I work as a surgeon in a hospital in the Orlando area in USA. And yes, I do have a house in France, which I visit occasionally. " I went 3 times on internet and I found nobody who operate as a surgeon plastic with such a name. And I verified all the pictures listed and registered as a surgeon in Orlando. I requested them to investigate her as she has another profile here: https://www.zendate.com/en/people/#*******. Zendate.com was Asiandate.com owned by the group Anasatasia.com. So I was surprised that Loveme.com share a lot of profiles with Anastasia.com. One Zendate she contacted me also and repeated she was in USA. It was the first red flag. They sent me a short video from the woman where she explains she is in china so no explanation why she wrote me twice she was working in USA and she was showing her ID but too far away to read something. Second red flag She wrote me last time in January and refused a Skype call. I called Loveme several time, sent them many emails for assistance and recently I even requested a refund twice but all the time they promise me to send a communication to China...3 months almost and I lost 100 dollars for nothing. Third red flag. Claimed loss: 100 dollars Desired outcome: Please refund my account Tip for consumers:No more real customer service, fake solution to solve the problems. Service Value Shipping Returns Quality

“Just another fake international dating site”

Except this one is here on American soil. I will admit when they first started out, they had real girls but NOW, they've managed to hire ghost writers who pose as the women in the photos but in real life, it's just a girl working for the agency with decent creative writing skills. Think about it gentleman, how in Gods name do so many stunning women want to compete for attention on one site? Preposterous. If these were real women, you wouldn't have to pay to open their letters and to send yours because the girl was so beautiful that you would utilize the agency to meet the girl as soon as you possibly could. But they string you along for as long as you're on the hook and eventually you either wise up or the girl abruptly ends communication with you because you either weren't a good match or she's found someone else or she's going back to school or her town is being evacuated…the list goes on and I've heard them all. The amount of money you pay in correspondence for 3mo is enough money to take a trip and find your own Nordic goddess. Trust me these people are absolute thieves. I'm a forensic analyst for handwriting, signatures, documents, and accounting. Have been for 11 years. I know when I'm being put on. If you read any of the 5 star ratings on this site, I clearly see that it's a plant. Someone created that bogus rating from within the organization just to keep their stars up. I am no fool. Never have been. Wake up, gentlemen. Tip for consumers:I included a photo of the “women’s letters” flooding my email that I made but how are so many stunning women writing to a profile that isn’t even complete except for a name? No photo, no occupation, nothing. Models so desperate to meet men they don’t know what they look like? Preposterous. When I called them out, they gave me a full refund because I told them I know everything and would expose them. Service Value Quality

“Great membership support”

Thank you for your membership service. It was very professional, well organized and complete with great support whenever I had a question or needed help on an issue. My questions were quickly answered.

“Thank you”

I really felt like I was going to find my wife in the Philippines. I sensed a true calling to do that. But at the same time, I was single and I wanted to enjoy it. To travel around and experience different places. Then after meeting Gellie through this service and twice spending time with her in person, I felt like I had to end my search. We had gotten closer and closer and I found myself losing interest in going to anymore socials. I mean, the socials were fantastic, but I'm absolutely certain that I have found the one to spend the rest of my life with.

“Thank you for the service”

The quality of service I received from this agency, both here in the U.S. and in Colombia was top of the line. From the very first emails, to listening to the Monday (or was it Tuesday) conference calls where they answered questions and offered advice. To using their service for sending flowers, handling translated phone calls to Ramona, and for the GREAT service I received in Colombia when I went down there the first time. Great work!

“Lovely, eligible women in the Philippines!”

I recently took a trip to Cebu in the Philippines, coordinated by the company "A Foreign Affair" (AFA), and it was one of the most amazing experiences I've ever been a part of! It's like stepping into another world when it comes to meeting wonderful women who are sincerely interested in American men. If more American men knew of this option, I'm sure they would be flocking to The Philippines, Thailand, Columbia, and other countries that AFA offers tours to. The women in the Philippines are as genuine and unspoiled as you could wish for. They're beautiful, appreciative and refreshingly simple; but smart with common sense that rivals or exceeds that of women in western countries. I think this has a lot to do with their close-knit families, and often taking responsibility for fellow family members. AFA is impressively well organized, and facilitated the trip in a highly professional yet personalized manner. The attention paid to each and every client by AFA is beyond thorough. And the local Philippine staff possessed the same giving personalities that were present in the eligible ladies. I believe the priorities of women in the Philippines are to meet men who are sincere, responsible and loyal (among other traits) - qualities they don't always find among men in their own countries - but do appreciate in American men. Going to another country for love and marriage may seem like a long trek, requiring time and expense to accomplish. Yet dating in the U.S. also demands time and $$ - probably even more so. Consider that on just one AFA trip you'll meet hundreds of beautiful, young ladies. As opposed to slogging through months (and years) of expensive domestic dating, often leading nowhere. The choice seems pretty clear. Service Value Quality