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Online Dating: Secret Admirer Card

How the Secret Admirer Scam Works:

(with video below) It is always nice to be admired, and being admired secretly from afar makes it that much more titillating. Yet a recent scam making the rounds involves victims receiving an e-card from an admirer. The text on an actual e-card being circulated is the following:

"E-Card content:

Hey. This is hard for me because I have never done anything like this..but I have a huge crush on you. I've never been able to tell you for reasons which you would quickly identify as obvious if you knew who this was.

I am really attracted to you and I think you would be wanting to get with *Read FULL Card Here*".

When the victim clicks on the link, one of two things happen; either the link downloads a keylogger on your computer, which allows the scammer to monitor live what you are doing, or it downloads a virus or malware.

Clicking the link can also lead you to a page asking for personal identification information in order to find out the identity of your admirer. The information is then used to steal your identity.

Watch the video below to see a different variation of the online dating scam:

Victims Explain How Scammers Operate Video


How to Avoid the Secret Admirer Scam:

It cannot be stressed enough, the importance of keeping your anti-virus software updated. Also, never open email from an unknown sender and if you inadvertently do, never click on links contained within email from unknown senders.

Protecting your identity online is so important; remember, if someone truly likes you, chances are they will tell you the old-fashioned way, not via e-card.


How to Report the Secret Admirer Scam:

Make your family and friends aware of this scam by sharing it on social media using the buttons provided. You can also officially report the scammers to the Federal Trade Commission using the link below:

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