Online Dating Scam: How It Works
Below you have a lot of information about how online dating scams work. Feel free to share your experience in the comments section, expose names, and add to the Google Hangouts scammer list. Let’s fight this together.
With the advancement of technology, crime is bigger than ever in this niche, whether we are talking about fraudulent activities that are related to face-to-face meetings, Google Hangouts scams, Valentine’s Day, partner’s background, or dates from a Tinder match.
Let’s take a closer look. Whether you are a male or a female, you should read this as the scenario below could easily apply to either gender. Months of online dating don’t seem to be paying off. You’re flipping through hundreds of profiles a night, and everyone’s either shallow or not that good-looking.
You finally think your luck is turning around when something magic happens:
– If you are a man, you hear from a lonely widow from Eastern Europe or East Africa (or, as of recently, she says she is on a cruise – the latest example is a girl named Lola Smith, see her fake story below). She is gorgeous in her pictures and seems really into you!
– If you are a woman, you just connected with a man working or being a soldier overseas. He says he’s in the impossibility of talking on the phone.
Are You The Love Of His/Her Life? Think Again
After a few emails, you start to fall in love – and are thrilled to hear the person you met reciprocates, calling you (after four to five months) “the love of her life.” When it comes time for you two to get together, she tells you she needs money. Perhaps she can’t afford a plane ticket. Maybe she’s sick and needs medicine. Maybe she lost her wallet in a foreign city or maybe she had a flood or a fire at her home.
Or, one of the latest reasons…she needs to take an AIDS test, which is required in her country before international travel.
Whatever it is, it seems like a small price to pay for true love – and it would be if the love were “true.” But this isn’t who you thought it was – she may not even be a woman, but a guy in Nigeria. Don’t feel bad: tens of thousands of men and women have fallen victim to this and tens of thousands more will (unless, of course, you spread the word about our website).
What makes the typical online dating scam even worse is that most of the victims refuse to believe they have been scammed, even after they lost the first round of cash. They’ll keep putting in money, truly believing they are helping a future life-mate and ignore all advice from friends.
Here are some screenshots of a scammer called Lola Smith (Lollipop), claiming to be a widow with a 5-year old son. She says she is on a cruise and can’t talk nor take pictures. She asks the victims to connect with her mom, only to send money.
How To Avoid The Online Dating Scam
As a rule of thumb, you should never pay for somebody you have never met. If she insists on you paying for the plane ticket, buy it for her directly with no refund option. At least that way, he/she can’t just take the money and run.
Another suggestion would be to run their name (even if they are fake) by professional companies that provide background checking of online dating users. There are just a few legitimate companies that provide this service. One of these companies is Social Catfish, which is an official, validated business meant to help you with a reverse lookup to search and verify identities. Check their website – you will be in good hands as they are very professional.
On the other hand, if you’re really looking to meet some interesting people without risks, you can join exclusive life-changing experiences like The Spark Experience, which consists of once-in-a-lifetime trips featuring countless bucket list items to be checked off in many locations around the world: Italy, Brazil, Maldives, Curacao, Argentina, Transylvania or Cartagena. Although is not a matchmaking-specific event, many participants vowed to be a life-changing endeavor. Here is how one experience looks like below (you can enter your name for the next The Spark Experience on their website):
Last but not least, educate yourself about the OnlyFans scams.
How To Report The Online Dating Scam:
Make your family and friends aware of this scam by sharing it on social media using the buttons provided. You can also officially report the scammers to the Federal Trade Commission using the link below:
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